Issue

 So we had an argument last night.

1) I ask where his money go and how much is the balance left.

I ask this question because, if i know how much money he have/left. Maybe that money can go buy for the next car or save for the next car.

My first plan is to save for reno and or child. I don't plan to save for buying the next car. I want to help him.But I also know that I cannot pay for everything and save for everything. And I don't expect him to do the same. I just thought if he have balance balance , he can save up to use that money for that car.

Ok then that time he told me how much money he left monthly after paying all the important stuff. And to me it is not enough, the amount that he told me is not even because he save up for wedding and also it is before deducting the food allowance. So i'm thinking what happen after wedding. Will that be enough  ?

Firstly that money can't even save up for car (save up for the next car) so meaning i need to help him save for the next car, and if I were to do that , I may not have enough money to save for reno. So saving for reno may need to on hold. And he are the one who said want to pay reno by cash, save up till we get the bto . We don't even plan to take loan. 

2) Everytime I ask him question he thought I assume. Oklh i think that way , I just ask. So just freaking reply to that question . Why need to say I assume.